Few delights can equal the presence of one whom we trust utterly. —George MacDonald
There are many ways to describe the work of a chaplain. Some emphasize the spiritual care of those in need, others broaden out to emotional as well. Still others imagine the chaplain to be an almost frightening figure, only showing up at one’s last moments to help break bad news. These things are true, though the last bit seems an over simplification, and yet I feel that none of them truly captures the heart of a chaplain’s work.
The word I most associate with being a chaplain is presence. Meeting people where they are at, whether that be mentally, spiritually, or even physically, and offering a listening, empathetic ear is what I love doing. Being able to spend quality time with others, hearing their joys and fears, and offering hope or consolation as best I can is what I see as my role in the lives of every person who steps foot on this campus.
By my definition, I also believe that any person can do the same work I do. In fact, I would wager all of us have at one time or another for a loved one or dear friend. It does not take training to be a counselor or clergy to have compassion for another person. Rather, it is an immense privilege when someone feels they can trust you enough to open up and expose their inner most self. It is something I am truly thankful for every day when I walk into this place.
-Chaplain Paul Hart Cochran
This article was taken from the Villas at Sunny Acres newsletter “Sunny Side Up.”